Pre-Marital Counseling

Please fill out the following information and submit to begin the process of your per-marital counseling. Thank you.

Your name *

Email address *

Phone number *

Phone number

Address *

Birthday *

Gender

Fiance's Name *

EMAIL *

Phone number *

Phone number

Address *

Birthday *

Gender

Describe how you met his version, her version if different.

What do you like best about him? What do you like best about her?

Who proposed? Tell me how he/she proposed.

What was the first gift he/she gave you that has special meaning?

What are the little things you love about each other? (be specific)

What was the first argument/fight you had and how did you resolve it?

Do you plan on having children? How many? Have you talked about this?

Who will pay the bills? Will you have one checkbook or two?

Have you been married before? How long ago? What happened?

If No simply put No. If Yes, please answer the following 2 question. Both need to answer as this applies?

Is there anything that you would like me to address in our counseling sessions?

What do you believe your greatest strenghts are as a couple? (be specific)

What are your greatest weaknesses as a couple? What area do you think has the potential for conflict or problems? (be specific)

Why do you want to spend the rest of your life with this person?

Answer from Bride to be. Answer from Groom to be.

I expect _____________________ to do the following: (full page)

Fill in the blank with bride's to be name.

I expect _____________________ to do the following: (full page)

Fill in the blank with groom's to be name.

I think _________________expects me to do the following: (full page)

Fill in the blank with bride's to be name.

I think _________________expects me to do the following: (full page)

Fill in the blank with groom's to be name.

WEDDING INFORMATION SHEET

YOUR WEDDING CEREMONY WILL BE A SPECIAL TIME IN YOUR LIVES THAT YOU WILL NEVER FORGET. WE WANT TO DO EVERYTHING WE CAN TO MAKE IT THE BEST THAT IT CAN BE. FOR THAT TO HAPPEN, YOU NEED TO TAKE YOUR RESPONSIBILITIES SERIOUSLY.

IT IS YOUR RESPONSIBILITY TO CONTACT EVERYONE INVOLVED IN THE WEDDING TO MAKE SURE THE ARE AT THE REHEARSAL 15 MINUTES PRIOR TO THE START TIME AND TO THE ACTUAL WEDDING 60 MINUTES PRIOR TO THE START.

IT IS ALSO YOUR RESPONSIBILITY TO GET THIS SHEET BACK TO THE CHURCH OFFICE AS SOON AS POSSIBLE.
(AT LEAST TWO MONTHS PRIOR TO YOUR WEDDING DATE.)

LET'S WORK TOGETHER TO MAKE YOUR CEREMONY ONE THAT WILL BRING GREAT JOY TO YOU, WONDERFUL MEMORIES FOR THE FUTURE AND MOST OF ALL GLORY TO GOD AS YOU BEGIN THIS NEW AND IMPORTANT PHASE OF YOUR RELATIONSHIP TOGETHER!

Wedding Date:

Wedding Time:

Wedding Location and Directions:

If the wedding is to be held at New Life a Building Use Form will need to accompany this form.

Reception Location and Directions

Please include information on the Building Use Form if the reception will be held at New Life following the Wedding Ceremony.

Rehearsal Date:

Rehearsal Time:

Bride

Name:

Wedding Coordinator:

Someone not in the wedding party or parent to the bride or groom, that the pastor can communicate with at the rehearsal and the wedding.
This helps the Pastor not have to track down so many people. They need to stay in contact with the pastor and the wedding party. A good coordinator can help with last minute details and make sure everyone is in place so the wedding can start on time. This can be a well organized close friend. There is no need to hire a professional.

Maid/Matron of Honor:

Name:

Bridesmaids/Jr Bridesmaids:

Number of and Names:

Parents and Step-Parents Attending:

Groom

Name:

Best Man:

Groomsmen:

Number of and Names:

Parents and Step-Parents Attending:

OTHER WEDDING PARTY

Ushers:

Guestbook:

Photographer:

Videographer:

Sound Tech:

Flower Girl:

Ring Bearer:

Candle Lighter:

Pianist:

Other Musicians:

Song Selections:

Additional Notes:

CEREMONY OPTIONS

Unity Candle

Yes

Give Flower to the Mothers

Yes

Communion for the Couple

Yes

Other Options